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| Chapter 1 No harm intended | Not Recorded |
| Chapter 2 American girlfriend age 23 | |
| Chapter 3 I’m not your brother age 24 | |
| Chapter 4 Terry’s Filipino girlfriend age 26 and 27 | |
| Chapter 5 Ethiopian girlfriend aged 24 the 27 | |
| Chapter 6 Truly in love | |
| Chapter 7 2nd Time Round | |
| Chapter 8 Dealing with the build up | |
| Chapter 9 2nd time in Ethiopia | |
| Chapter 10. Five years later | |
| Chapter 11 Newcastle | |
| Chapter 12. Nottingham. | |
| Chapter 13. Kuwait | |
| Chapter 14. Peterborough. UK. | |
| Chapter 15 out of the blue. | |
| Chapter 16. Termination. | |
| Chapter 17. The final blow up. Aged 36. | |
| Chapter 18. Doha, Qatar | |
| Chapter 19. 17 years later. |
From not having a relationship grounding from parents or school. I could Have gotten myself into trouble with Age of conception. To put it mildly, an intense course in becoming streetwise overnight. The girl from speaking online during 2000. was 19 years old and was very open and had Asperger Syndrome like me. Despite the countless warnings from back home, I override them, brought a ticket and flew to Los Angeles. Whist there, She came across very immature and childlike. If there is one lesson for people with neuro divergence and wanting a relationship with someone in another country. Do check the age of consent.
After splitting up with her and still working at the store, I than ventured onto Ethiopia and, hired a tourguide and again, another scenerio relating to love. Back home, I was infatuated with her and experienced the preadjusted of dating a foreign girl. After seeing the scam, I have highlighted it another work colleagues encounter to no avail . He also introduced me to her Filipino friend who tried it on. She didn't succeed but was informative of middle Eastern Countries exploit foreign workers. Time passed and resumed three years after returning from Australia. The tourguide hired had married an older tourist and was living with her in an upper class of London and into the coffee trade.
For the duration, I gradually begun to learn that Leppard's do not change their spots overnight and this led to altercations over a decade period. At first, it was euphoric to great someone who looked after you whist in their host country and for a while I was eager to show off my new fond friend and even introduced him to my family to prove a motive.
This led onto him introducing me to his friends and going to parties and meeting another acquaintance who came from the same village and then going to Kuwait to see her sisters who were agency workers. In this book, I have illustrated pitying correspondence emails within timelines, love letters that have no concrete foundations, fake promises and unreliability, sociopathic tendencies, exploitation of foreign workers and an out of the blue relation that cached up to me 17 years later, plus plenty of simping from my end.
I have used AI generated text as a means of trying to get to my points across towards the Neurotypcal Reader. As from repeated classroom experience. The teachers referencing that some of my content is difficult to read.
This is own own original text without using AI. This is how I write in general. Also, I'm fully aware that himself, despite doing repeat edits, that I need a fresh pair of eyes upon my work. It's beening to invested in the story at my end.
This is my account of an internet relationship in the year 2000. I reached out to a girl from Los Angeles who also reported having Asperger Syndrome. It was the first time I had spoken to someone who completely understood my frustrations with the challenges of living with the condition. This quickly escalated into a long-distance relationship, and a few weeks later, I flew out to meet her. There were some red flags from her end, as she became involved in another relationship with an underage child aged 16. However, I overrode my feelings and flew out there regardless. Unfortunately, the relationship did not turn out the way she had corresponded on the internet.
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| This is my account of an internet relationship in the year 2000. I reached out to a girl from Los Angeles who also reported having Asperger Syndrome. It was the first time I had spoken to someone who completely understood my frustrations with the challenges of living with the condition. This quickly escalated into a long-distance relationship, and a few weeks later, I flew out to meet her. There were some red flags from her end, as she became involved in another relationship with an underage child aged 16. However, I overrode my feelings and flew out there regardless. Unfortunately, the relationship did not turn out the way she had corresponded on the internet. | |
| Before going to Los Angeles, I spent hours reviewing her electronic correspondence and handwritten letters, never realizing that once I sent them, there was no turning back. As the correspondence lengthened, discrepancies within the timeframe of communication began to appear. For instance, she told the truth about her guardians, and the addresses checked out. However, she wasn’t expecting me to fly to Los Angeles alone and confront her in person. There was no show at the airport despite scanning the tickets, and she had not taken time off work as promised. Instead, I spent a lot of time with Tony, who ended up showing me around. Mandy had not told Tony about our correspondence. It was scary stuff. The bluffing went on for a week until two days before Tony found out about our relationship through Mandy. He was really mad and had been prewarned by her that I was coming over. The relationship ended 48 hours later, and I was left nursing my emotions with pen and paper, scribbling everything down. | |
| Returning to the UK, we continued to correspond and remained madly infatuated, wanting the relationship to go ahead. She continued to communicate with her family, who were not taking her seriously. She even shared her memorabilia, including the songs she liked and books. She was an avid cinema enthusiast, and her relationships with other boyfriends were full of intimacy, which should have been kept at bay. By then, I was beginning to put the pieces together and realized her level of maturity. That is when I began gathering evidence regarding female hypergamy and the social conditioning of society as a whole, and why online coaches today extract money from hurt emotions. | |
| This is an example of a work colleague's infatuation with a Filipino woman while working at the store. Terry had recently become divorced from another work colleague and wasn’t taking it well. He confronted a native Filipino employee who introduced him to a single Filipino woman from Manila. While in correspondence, Terry introduced me to Darna, with whom I would continue to email sporadically for a decade, which is included in a further chapter within the book. When this happened, I had finished the relationship with Mary and decided to advise him not to repeat the same mistakes I had made. For a brief period, we became close friends, and gradually the relationship became closer. Terry knew about my oddness and kept making remarks about my intelligence. But unlike myself, who became untrusting towards women in general, Terry’s relationship went on a predictable path, which isn’t too hard to imagine. | |
| Still working at the store and engaged in education, I was getting over Mandy. The next story is the one that would last for a decade. It started from opening a Lonely Planet guidebook of Ethiopia and being inquisitive about what the nightclubs were like out there. It was the year 2002, and the country's infrastructure wasn’t as well developed as it is today. The rural beauty of lakes, sunsets, mountains, monasteries, and the rustic image of Addis Ababa struck me like a lightning bolt. Without hesitation, I purchased the book and carried it everywhere, receiving mixed responses along the way. It wasn’t long before I purchased another flight ticket and was thought of as insane for doing so. My parents were worried about me going there alone and found a journalist who owned a hotel and emailed me about my learning disability. When I arrived, the locals, including the hotel staff, attempted to extract as much money as possible and told me that they were full for the night. This was a bluff, and I quickly began to catch on. The journey was euphoric, and the following morning I met George, who would serve as a tour guide on two separate occasions and introduce me to a local Ethiopian country girl who I would fall in love with. There is plenty of description regarding the culture and the pros and cons of being a foreigner in a completely new environment. I was really well treated and got a real Ethiopian experience that will last a lifetime. | |
| Back home, I finally started appreciating things that I once took for granted. It caused friction at the store with an alien attitude and caused havoc with my love-struck gyroscope mind of whether I should go and do the inevitable. Like with Mandy, letters of communication began to flow between us. The correspondence was very feminine and abstract, despite plenty of grammatical errors. Despite this, I chose to only see the fairytale and not the deception that might eventually unfold. Trying to make sense of it all alienated opportunities with potential relationships that may or may not have worked out. Mary was the love of my life, and she was considered more beautiful than most Western women. She had the traditional feminine values that have sadly eroded in most women from the West. I felt very guilty about my career stagnating at the store and was frustrated that my attempts to better myself got me nowhere. During most break times, I spent considerable time mastering the Fidel alphabet Amharic and was able to recognize the symbols. The engagement intensified with her family writing letters that were discreetly about marriage. It got serious on their end. I have re-edited the letters to give a glimpse into their persuasion, but more importantly, to assist your pathway if you happen to be facing a similar situation of my thought processes. My mind was more focused on how the system works, and I was intrigued to know what was involved in the visa process. As I wasn’t happy living in the UK, I wanted to make some inquiries regarding getting a work permit and perhaps enrolling in a university course in Addis Ababa. At the time, I envisioned living in Ethiopia, learning the language, and renting a flat with Mary. At home, I was discreetly checking on marriage visas in the UK and corresponded that information in due course. I gave her the practical elements of residing there, such as the grass not always being greener on the other side of the fence. However, unbeknownst to me at the time, I was teasing her with the persuasion, leading her on. The correspondence continues. | |
| Before the buildup of meeting Mary the second time: The letters from her end were completely misalign to me as the topics mainly focused around the religion and family units, while I still played the logical element of the conditions she needs to oblige to whist in the UK, like a job and paying her own way into society. At both ends, neither of us were going to fulfill the relationship and the stakes were a no go for me as I had the most to lose in theory. The letters were probably from her own words and various translators were used during the process. Did she really love me, and to this day. I would probably state Yes. She did Love me. Or perhaps, it was something completely, different what do you think? Towards the end of the chapter, I corresponded with Mary in person and used George again as a tour guide and translator. We did travel around the country and again, had a very welcoming experience with family and the natives. However, there was some slander from Mary with regards to using George again as she apparently didn't like him. But he was the only one who knew both of us and was mediator between our communication. I repeat, she had a poor command in English and my Amharic was phrasebook elementary. There is plenty of reflection throughout and trying to reason with complexities either do not make sense, and that are can only be understood through extensive life experiences. |
Chapter 2 American girlfriend age 23
Chapter 3 I’m not your brother age 24
Chapter 4 Terry’s Filipino girlfriend age 26 and 27
Chapter 5 Ethiopian girlfriend aged 24 the 27
Chapter 6 Truly in love
Chapter 7 Dealing with the build up
Chapter 9 2nd time in Ethiopia
The following day, George showed up at the hotel and later informed me that Mary would be arriving in Addis Ababa that very afternoon. Was I excited or more numb from our miscommunication, which was only through correspondences with translators and airmail letters? Anyway, I continued, and they may have reluctantly gone along with my idea of exploring their country as tourists, and of course, I paid for the privilege. Many things played out on the trip. Despite not grasping a required standard in Amharic, there seemed to be little tension between George and Mary, and they appeared to get along like work colleagues forced to interact for a paycheck. While on the trip, I spent time with her family and experienced Mary’s moodiness, and I’m sure you're catching on to why she acted that way. Towards the end, there were more letters of desperation involving one of her sisters residing in Germany after getting a visa from a native, my mental state of mind, and a stern warning from a Pakistani woman who warned me about leading her astray. And what would have happened in the Muslim world if it manifested and so on.
Intermision
Life continued without the Ethiopian interruption for five years, during which I wrote another book, "A Fish Out of Water," about my backpacking experience mainly around Australia on a working holiday visa. The story resumes with an out-of-the-blue email from George.
Chapter 10. Five years later.
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It was love at first sight. George had married an elderly British tourist who was on holiday and now resided in a prime location in London. In other words, she was a successful businesswoman and had done well for herself. Without much hesitation, I met up with them and experienced chaotic circumstances. While there, things began to unravel, revealing why people want to reinvent themselves. For instance, elderly women want to feel the joys of youth, desperate men want to flee their homeland looking for better opportunities, and more importantly, I sought an understanding of the world in a wider frame of reference.
Included are some taboos regarding ways of life and customs per country and how behaviors that are acceptable in your or my culture could be taboos if repeated in other contexts. I have included some in-depth theories on the dangers of mass immigration and have highlighted George's examples to illustrate what to be aware of in a westernized democratic country.
Chapter 11, Newcastle.
I got to see George's niece, Helen from Newcastle, who was adopted during the famine of 1984, and we all celebrated the New Year 2010 together. Her female friend from Belgium identified me as being somewhat autistic almost immediately, even before conveying any form of dialogue with the background people at the house. At the house party, I met a British man who had purchased an Ethiopian bride off the internet for £5000 and got a perspective from her end that she did it for the obvious reason of escapism. During the visit, I witnessed out-of-character behaviour when overindulgences brought out the worst in people. Let's say, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from past wars and combined insecurities of failed relationships with children ending in divorce.
Chapter 12. Nottingham.
Further correspondence with George led to me being introduced to another girl from the same village as Mary. Again, I was rather excited by this news and envisioned the exoticness of becoming friends with a girl from the same village who may have been granted citizenship from unknown sources. She was heavily into the born-again Christian religion and would often try to convert me, but we got along, and things turned into a type of twilight zone. For instance, Liya had grandparents who lived next door to Mary's, and she encouraged me to speak to them over the phone. More was to follow, leading to another trip, airport, and meet-up.
Chapter 13. Kuwait.
Loving the thrill of the unknown and running the gauntlet of a gladiator traveler, and knowing that I was going to Thailand is a few months. I was again flying to another country to meet up with an exotic girl from the same village as Mary, her sister Isla, who had citizenship in the UK, and George, who had been my tour guide with Mary and happened to be hired by Mary as my translator. What could possibly go wrong if placed in such a scenario within an Islamic country? Plenty for the unsuspecting traveler, but for someone with Asperger's who had done this many times, it turned into a facade of seeking a new experience out of the ordinary.
Desta, who was an agency worker in Kuwait, did meet me at the airport, and a familiar role was being played out like the opening in a chess match. While in Kuwait, I explored the tourist attractions and never felt as free as I did in the West; at times, it felt like being under surveillance. Again, she tried love bombing me, and the three of them worked together to use me as a tool to get citizenship in the UK. There were plenty of hidden landmines and a very scary encounter at Heathrow Airport, which will be detailed towards the end of this book. Keep reading on.
Chapter 14. Peterborough. UK.
A week later, Isla came to Peterborough and met my parents, my sister's boyfriend, and me in person. We ate around the table as they were cooking a roast dinner. It was another surreal experience as Isla had many of the facial features that Desta had while visiting her in Kuwait. Isla was very charming, and they all took an instant liking to her. This all happened while we were in my parents' living room. As they were all getting along nicely, I sat back on the sofa and wondered how this all happened and how I managed to engineer this scenario despite it being farfetched if I were to drop this story into an everyday occurrence. I was deliberately digging my own grave and enjoying the descent into an unknown void.
Regarding work and posting on Facebook, it resulted in plenty of hostility from work colleagues and strangers who became envious and jealous of my adventures in general. But at the same time, they would not accept me into their social group for simply being myself, regardless of what I did or did not do.
Chapter 15 out of the blue.
George made contact with regarding a proposal regarding a coffee business opportunity involving Japan which was Stange as Ethiopia was known as candidate coffee exporter. As follows, he said that I did good to him whist being a tourist in Ethiopia and he wanted to return the favour. Meanwhile, I was working towards setting my own my Personal Training Business and was off to Thailand to pursue the steppingstones making it a reality. He clearly became agitated like a father and childlike scenario to the rituals of his parents conditioning. He continued in person and over the phone and spoke nonstop about his and Irene’s successful coffee business. And they were sucessful and making plenty of money, even the BBC did a documentary on their business which added more velvet in the making of the curtain. Eventually, I decided to play ball and enroll of a barista course in London and once I mentioned to the instructors that I knew George and Irene, one of the instructors after the course became a little bit intermit. George by them was becoming more erratic with his communication becoming unreliable as a friend. For instance, when I asked him about this and that and regarding Irene, he acted as a suspect like being asked questions by a Detective. He also begun to gaslight me and use self-doubt tactics to put me on edge. Did it work you may be wondering.
Chapter 16. Termination.
George who I wasn’t aware off at the time was a sociopath and if I knew back them, would have simply ended the relation a long time ago. I go into detail about his personality and even money that isn't a full guarantee for happiness. Ill prewarn you that in advance that George has the Christmas to charm his way into your life and if unchecked could lead you into deep trouble if your radar isn't operating on a full beam. Hopefully you can see my angle as well, from being scapegoated and wired differently from birth that we both had to develop survival mechanisms to navigate uncompromising environments.
Please read my Under the exotic Iceberg by my adventure in Thailand
Chapter 17. The final blow up. Aged 36.
Returning from Thailand and visiting George was something that shouldn't have gone ahead. The conversation via social media went on for three years and was inconsistent. There was plenty of deception involving sharing dreams and gaslighting tendencies to make you go crazy. I have documented his other characters in this book to highlight the great lengths people will happily go to deceive you. I also highlighted the points about being neurodivergent in a society that doesn't cater to their needs. I completely understand why you would want to break away from it and am sympathetic if this has happened to you, is happening at present, or if you haven't stumbled upon it yet.
Chapter 18. Doha, Qatar
Following Terry’s Filipino relationship that went horribly wrong, I continued to communicate with Darna. Over the decade of knowing her without meeting her, her English had considerably improved. I told her about meeting Desta in Kuwait and wanted to find out more about how Arabs exploited foreign workers. Her verdict wasn't positive, and she quickly wanted to know if the relationship with Desta had worked out or not. It continued on the trajectory of her being a university graduate and complaining about being employed as a housemaid. Her excuses, not uncommon from Southeast Asia, were about wanting an escape to England, with her child being somewhere else.
Again, the theme was the same as with many like Mary, escaping a hopeless existence from one country and establishing themselves in a supposedly more liberal country. Time and again, I tried to advise these women on methods to improve themselves while in their host countries, but they didn't want to know or take me up on my supposed solutions. If you're not careful, you can become a volunteer counsellor or a source of entertainment for them.
Chapter 74. 17 years later.
Some women think they can go no contact for 17 years and suddenly re-enter your life as if nothing happened. This is one such case from my travels around Nigeria, which I haven't documented. Sometimes, there are unsuspecting surprises from your past activities when you were having a good time. She became rather preachy with Christianity, and when I ignored the conversations, she went mad. This highlights female hypergamy and cultist movements, which is why some men go MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way).
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Digging your own grave. It's an account of. Navigating. Independent Travel. On the neuro divergent spectrum. And what to look out for? Whilst independently travelling solo.
Within the book, I'll lookout for seeking love abroad., becoming too attached to locals. And to eventually. To getting. Marriage phases. Thought to be signed in the UK.
I have illustrated a decade of correspondence. Resulting myself. With a. Decade relationship with a sociopath.
An Internet with relationship for America. Diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. I'm flying from UK to Los Angeles. Looking for genuine love? Only to discover. Her mental instability whilst there From an Upper class upbringing..
I have also highlighted the. Three-year correspondence with her relationship with an Ethiopian girl. Girl only goal is residing in the UK.
I have also highlighted the hidden dangers of playing the field and being in holiday romances too close to home.
The book also highlights the. Deceits. Potential scans. And the broken hearted man who is inexperienced with the aftermath of not fully. Understanding female nature and hypergamy.
Included is a controversial subjects relating to. The cultures. And diversity. Of each countries. The bridging of cultures that are so fast. Races and contradictions.
Again, from being an outsider, I have inherently become a conspiracy theorist and have written some controversial ideologies of putting the world to rights. I’m not like this in real life and not to be taken seriously regarding Prejudiced topics outrightly to cause offence. In my case, a bit like attacking a country regarding no retaliation.
Regardless of my illustrations about sensitive topics, I hope you can glimpse an insight of marrying a foreign girl without actually doing it and see how scenarios play out if you were stupid enough to fall for these deceitful scams.
- And more importantly, highlighting that being born neurodivergent shouldn't stop you from seeking an alternate life. Trust me, you’ll look back and have incredible stories to tell the boring neurotypical who mostly have a monovision view of the world.